Promenade dance, most commonly called a prom, is a semi-formal dance or gathering of high school students. Usually, this event is held near the end of the school year. If this event could be dedicated for junior high school students which is referred to as “junior prom” or ones dedicated to seniors as “senior prom”. Many high schools are now celebrating a combination “Junior/Senior Prom” for both juniors and seniors.
Yearly, several students fail to follow a somewhat relatively simple procedures in prom dressing. Should it be a lack of knowledge or apathy, this practice must be put to end. Whatever the reason is, Folchi’s Tuxedo and Menswear is here to give you a guideline for your prom. Just carefully follow this simple tip and you will have the best prom of your life.
What should a guy wear to prom, exactly? A suit? A tuxedo?
Let’s take a look at tuxedo first.
Tuxedo is a man’s evening and formal wear. Thus, making it one of the most appropriate to wear in formal events like prom. It is very important to remember to remain true to a “black-tie” event, your tuxedo should be black. It is only a polite way that it is not really an option. However, today some prom students are wearing suits, blazers, and tuxedos that are not black.
Another important thing to remember is that the tuxedo should always fit very well for you otherwise it will look like you are wearing your father’s tuxedo, and no one wants that.
Shirt should fit well for you. You can never go wrong whether you choose pleats or not. Pleated shirt is for those who wants a classic, traditional look. If you wish for a modern, sleek look, non-pleated is best for you.
Something you should consider is the type of cuff: French or barrel. Barrel is the most common type where you can find it on any buttoned shirt. French cuff on the other hand is a double cuff formed by folding back a wide band at the end of a sleeve, usually fastened by a cuff link.
The style of your collar should match the style of your tuxedo. The winged collar is specially reserved for formal occasion dress. Wearing a winged collar requires it to be paired with a tuxedo
Patent leather shoes are acceptable for black tie; however, they shall be in lace up and not loafer form. If you decide for calfskin shoes, they should be well polished, shiny and free of accents and other shoe accessories. A well-polished black cap toe is the ideal shoe to wear with a tuxedo.
As for your tie, you will be wearing a bow tie. That is the end of the story. We understand that some tuxedo renters will offer the option of a regular necktie. That does not mean you should wear one.
Wear a bow tie to Prom
Most places won’t even give you an option when it comes to your bow tie. Wear a bow tie because of tradition. You’re wearing a tuxedo to show respect for an occasion. You must be at ease in your tuxedo, and part of that involves being at ease with tradition. Just choose a normal-sized, neatly tied bow tie.
Cummerbund or Vest
A basic black cummerbund is recommended for the prom. A cummerbund is a broad waist sash, usually pleated, which is often worn with single-breasted tuxedos. The cummerbund is essentially a strip of fabric worn around the waist originally intended to catch crumbs as they fell onto the gentleman’s lap; therefore, the folds face up. As usual, the appropriate color is black. Always go with the classic look. This small rule will always reward you.
A pocket square is a swatch of fabric that you fold up and put in your top jacket pocket. It can be a functional handkerchief or just decorative. A traditional pocket square will have the hem rolled, contrary to handkerchiefs. Pocket squares are usually made in fabrics such as silk, cotton, linen or wool.
As a visible fashion item there are a wide variety of ways to fold a pocket square, ranging from the austere to the flamboyant. If you are not sure what color to choose it is recommended to use a white pocket square. This is a simple, classy way to show that you know what you’re doing but that you prefer to stay within the lines.
It is not that hard to follow this simple guideline. Attention to details and being proactive is an essential character one might remember. Who knows you might be the best-dressed boy at the prom.
What’s the Difference Between A Tuxedo and A Suit for Prom?
The primary physical difference between a tuxedo and a suit is the presence of satin. Tuxedos have satin facing on the lapels, buttons, pocket trim, and a satin side stripe down the leg of the trousers. Suits don’t incorporate any satin and usually have either plastic buttons or buttons faced with the same fabric as the coat.
Tuxedos are reserved mostly for a very special event in your life. Wearing one indicates formality of the occasion. When you received an invitation that indicates “black tie optional”, that is only a polite way that it is necessary to wear a tuxedo. If the host is suggesting that everyone must wear black tie, then everyone should.
You can wear a suit anytime of the day, anywhere you go. You can even wear a suit at grocery store.
Events you commonly wear tuxedos:
- A ball or formal dance
- The opening of the opera, ballet or symphony
- A formal dinner party or reception
- Dinner at a formal or fine dining restaurant
You only wear tuxedo after 5 pm. It's too formal to be worn during the day.
What Other Options A Guy Could Wear in Prom
If the event doesn’t require you to wear tuxedo, then you are free to choose other semi-formal outfits.
A prom suit is ideal if you want a smart, sleek and modern look on your prom night. Choose either a 2- or 3-piece suit and you can choose either skinny, slim or tailored. Suit can be dusted down and worn again for a big interview or your next special occasion.
The blazer can instantly transform a shirt and smart jeans combo into a prom outfit. Typically available in a bolder range of colors than a standard suit jacket, they also tend to be cut more casually.
How to Fit A Prom Tuxedo
The skinny fit suit also has a shorter jacket length and narrower legs. Perfect for guys with a slight or slim build, it’s a great cut if you want to achieve a smart, ultra-modern look.
Defined by a tailored, narrow fit around the shoulder, chest, waist and sleeve, the slim fit look is finished off with tapered trouser legs to create a sharp, modern silhouette. It’s a look that works well for men with a slight, slim or medium build.
Tailored fit is a great way to accentuate your natural body shape, while still leaving room to breathe. Defined by a jacket that’s nipped in at the waist and classic lapels, the trousers are tapered for a polished look. Ideal for guys with a slim, regular or large build, it’s a style that has wide appeal.
How to Dress for Modern Prom
Researching online or watching tv would be the very first step you could do to see what your favorite male stars have been wearing to get some inspiration. You may save some pictures and search online. That way you may know how you will find the clothes you ideally want. Below are few guidelines for what guys wear to prom that will help you find your best look.
- Coordinate with your date
Check with your date about the color and material of her dress. It will also impress her if you ask her opinion and preferences for her date, because you would be astonished of how much advise she could give.
Mostly likely, you will wear a tuxedo. That doesn’t mean you have to discount your personal sense of style. You can always look formal at the same time with few alterations to give way for your personal taste. Look at the new amazing colors of vests, ties and cummerbunds.
A trendy accessory or two can look amazing with a classic suits or tuxedos. You can always try a non-traditional bow, for example.